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Premature ejaculation causes are something that strikes fear into the heart of almost every man.
No man wants to orgasm after less than a minute of lovemaking…

But why does it happen so often?

Why are some men crippled to live with the daily embarrassment of not being able to give their woman the pleasure she wants and deserves?

And what have those “other” men got that means they can have sex like stallions and last for hours on end if they choose?

Well, having taught thousands of men about overcoming premature ejaculation, here is what I have discovered are the 4 main premature ejaculation causes, plus (and more importantly) what you can do about it…

Premature Ejaculation Cause #1 – Uncontrolled Over stimulation

If there’s anything that causes premature ejaculation then it’s the fact that most guys don’t have any control over how much pleasure they experience during sex.

Most men just assume that pleasure is the pleasure and don’t even consider that there are levels to how much pleasure is experienced during sex and that these levels can dramatically affect how long a man can last in bed.

You see, if you want to last longer in bed then you’ve got to take control of the pleasure you experience during sex.

If you go into sex thrusting at 100mph then you can’t expect to get so stimulated and pleasured that you orgasm within minutes or even seconds.

You’ve got to find ways of reducing your pleasure when necessary so you can last longer.

Because think about it for a second…

What’s really more pleasurable?

A minute of super intense over stimulated pleasure followed by a quick orgasm?

Or 15 minutes of slightly more mellow pleasure, that leads to one gigantic climax of an orgasm, with 2 or 3 orgasms for her in the process?

I think you’ll agree that the second example is much more pleasurable overall, so start looking for ways to reduce your pleasure when necessary, whether it be by thrusting slower, changing positions or changing what you’re thinking about.

Premature Ejaculation Cause #2 – Using Porn As A Sex Guide

As young men, we’re not given a manual on how to be good lovers and last longer in bed.

In fact, I’m yet to hear about a father who has sat his son down and taught him how to last longer in bed and give a woman mind-blowing orgasms.

So how do most men end up learning how to have sex and last longer in bed?

From a combination of their friends, what they guess is good and porn.

Now as you can probably guess, none of these places is great sources of information to lasting longer in bed.

Firstly your friends probably aren’t the greatest in bed.

I mean they might be, but the chances are that they are not.

I’m not trying to be rude or anything, but statistics show that almost every woman has faked an orgasm at least once in her life and some studies suggest as much as 50% of women fake orgasms on a consistent basis.

This means the “average” guy is not who you want to be learning sex advice from.

Secondly, just guessing what is a good way of having sex probably isn’t the best way to last for hours in bed either.

I mean if you had guessed the right way then you wouldn’t be reading this article anyway, right?

Guessing what to do to last longer in bed just doesn’t work, you’ve got to use proven strategies, tricks and techniques that have consistently proven to help any man last longer in bed (more on those in a second).

And thirdly, porn is a horrible, I repeat horrible, guide for how to have sex.

In terms of premature ejaculation causes, when men copy porn they normally forget one key thing…

Porn is edited!

This means that what you see on screen is not the whole picture of what happens.

When you see that male porn actor banging away, what they won’t show is the 5 minutes he took to calm himself down so he didn’t orgasm… or the 5 minutes he took to perform a special technique for lasting another 10 minutes.

One of the major premature ejaculation causes is that men learn from the absolute wrong sources of information.

When you learn from the right sources of information about what makes you great in bed, suddenly lasting longer in bed becomes easy.

Premature Ejaculation Cause #3 – Thrusting Away Like There’s No Tomorrow

You see, it’s almost instinctive for us men to thrust hard and fast like there’s no tomorrow.

We enjoy thrusting fast so we naturally assume women will too.

And porn (that is generally designed for the pleasure of men) only confirms this belief.

But the fact is that fast thrusting is actually a major and unnecessary premature ejaculation cause.

If you take your time on foreplay, tease your woman and build up lots of anticipation before sex, 90% of the time you’ll find that your woman won’t even need fast thrusting to experience an orgasm.

And of course when you thrust slowly, it’s a lot easier to last longer in bed.

Premature Ejaculation Cause #4 – Not Relaxing

When a man struggles with premature ejaculation, they’ll often be the type of man that gets very excited and nervous before sex.

They have all these big bright images in their head.

They get overwhelmed with pleasure.

And at the same time they get really nervous about not lasting long enough.

How this causes premature ejaculation is that these feelings of nervousness and excitement release hormones into the bloodstream that end up encouraging fast orgasm.

So if you spend time worrying about premature ejaculation you are in fact making it worse than if you didn’t worry about it in the first place.

So if you want to last longer in bed, start relaxing more and stop taking sex so seriously.